Difficult people….

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Have you ever had anyone in your life who just rubbed you the wrong way…but not just because they are who they are, but they are constantly and purposefully trying to irritate you in one way or another? Someone who just can’t be happy making other people happy, but has this deep need to make the lives of others around them unsettled?

For some reason they can’t stand for people to be happy….they want a constant strife….but not an outward strife, it’s an inner, kinda secret, quiet strife that you can’t quite put your finger on (or at least they are hoping you can’t put your finger on). These people have a vindictive spirit about them and do little things that upset your world….just little things, mind you…but strategic little things (i.e. hide your keys, hide the green plastic cup you use to fill your coffee pot – that is just the right size to make 6 cups of coffee …. possibly they’ve even thrown those things away???)

Never-the-less, these things have come up missing…the keys for about 3 months now and the cup just recently….ironically, things only seem to go missing when this person visits :/). Doesn’t seem like a big deal, but it’s just enough to get under your skin as well as make you feel uneasy and wonder what will go missing next? Ugh….don’t ya just love people like that!? If they’d just take that energy and use it towards repairing the damage they’ve done in relationships…

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7 Responses to Difficult people….

  1. Candy says:

    YES…..I have!!! And I feel your pain, Sis! No one else but they themselves with Gods help (if they’d ask) can change it either! Sometimes people just won’t CHOOSE to care or to change.

    But you can choose NOT to be in their ‘movie’….it’s the only thing standing between you and the insanity they create and choose. Choose to star in your OWN movie! Take their power away! HUGS!

  2. Lisa says:

    That sort of thing is irritating, no doubt, no matter who it is that’s behaving so badly. But the worst is when it’s not just an acquaintance but is someone from your intimate circle. Life is just too short for that nonsense, that’s for sure.

    It’s probably a bad case of constipation that causes this. Perhaps the next time you have such a visitor you can do the helpful thing and liberally dose their food with ex-lax. That will clean them out and keep them too busy for such hi-jinks! I’d say it’s worth a few extra rolls of TP for that!

  3. Candy says:

    LOL! I love it! X-Lax! Gotta be dessert and make some chocolate chunk cookies…..as long as you keep track of which ones go to the offending party! I like the way you think, Lisa! 😉

  4. Victoria says:

    Lisa….roflmao!! Oh how funny! Why oh why didn’t I think of that!?? hahahaha….I’m quite impressed! Very constructive….after all, I would be trying to help them…..to get the stick….ooopss, I mean blockage….outta their …. 😛

    Kudos Lisa!!

  5. Victoria says:

    Hey Candy….thanks for identifying with my “pain”. Even though it’s very irritating, though, it’s actually quite funny too to see them striving so hard to find such “childish” ways to “get me back” … for what I’m not sure exactly…but hey!
    Love ya sis!

  6. Beth Van Dyche says:

    Wow! Just catching back up on your blog. Yes, I can relate to this because I lived with that for 14 years. It was tough not to believe that I was crazy, but I KNEW I wasn’t!! 🙂

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